Advice for Picking Out Wedding Bands

    How to Pick Out Wedding BandsYour wedding should be one of the most memorable days of your life. Once the special day is over, you can treasure great memories for years to come with the help of a beautiful set of wedding bands. Wedding rings are meant to symbolize eternal love. Given this level of significance, it is especially important that you pick out a pair of rings that you and your spouse will be proud to wear the rest of your lives. The following are a few things to consider as you look over different designs:

    Match the Wedding Bands to the Engagement Ring

    Traditionally, the bride wears the wedding band closest to her heart, followed by her engagement ring. Often, the woman will choose to make things easier after the wedding by having the two rings banded together. Because the two rings will be in such close proximity, it is absolutely essential that they look good together. This means that it is not advisable to choose any old set of wedding bands.

    Many jewelers specifically design engagement diamond rings and wedding rings together, making the entire ring shopping process a whole lot easier on the groom. This format allows the groom to get all of the rings together, allowing for a seamless appearance. When deciding to go this route, it will be important to take the bride’s choices into consideration. Some couples have ditched the whole traditional “surprise” engagement and instead opted to shop for engagement and wedding rings together. This allows the couples to agree on styles and designs before making any large investments.

    Wedding Band Engravings

    A wedding band is more than just a ring. It’s a symbol of true love. Wedding bands can be made more personal with the help of special engravings. Couples like to choose engravings that capture the meaning of their relationships. These may involve special Bible verses, quotes from books, or even inside jokes. Some couples know what they’ll use to engrave their rings well ahead of time, while others really struggle with this decision. For couples having a difficult time deciding on engravings, many jewelers provide a list of quotes, Bible verses and other touching phrases from which couples can choose.

    Choosing Comfortable Rings

    A large concern of those choosing wedding rings is the comfort factor. Make sure you don’t select a ring that makes you uncomfortable, because you could be stuck wearing it for the rest of your life. The most comfortable rings tend to have gently rounded edges. These feel much better on the skin than sharp angles. The comfort of a ring also depends on its size. Most men choose rings between 5 and 7 millimeters wide. Rings wider than 7 millimeters can cause a fair amount of discomfort, especially for men with small to average hands.

    The process of choosing wedding bands is not something to be taken lightly. You and your significant other will be wearing those rings for a long time, so pick something you’ll be happy to show off.

    Alexa Thomason is an excited bride-to-be who lives in Chicago. An art history graduate student, she spends her time traveling, studying, and planning her upcoming nuptials with her fiancé!


     

    Why Men’s Cobalt Chrome Wedding Bands Aren’t Just a Flash in the Pan

    Made from a metal alloy of cobalt and chromium, men’s cobalt chrome wedding bands are currently enjoying a certain popularity, even though some people may have never heard of the material. Offering both “specific strength” (that is, a high strength-to-weight ratio) and biocompatibility, cobalt chrome has been used primarily in the medical industry for orthopedic and dental implants, as well as for use in gas turbines.

    While the metallic element cobalt was discovered in 1739 by chemist George Brandt, commercial cobalt alloys (including cobalt-chromium) were not discovered until the early 20th century by metallurgist and entrepreneur Elwood Haynes. Haynes found that these alloys had at once incredible strength at elevated temperatures, a resistance to corrosion and a naturally bright luster. He accordingly named these alloys the Stellite alloys, after the Latin word for ‘star.’

    In some regards, cobalt chrome is nothing short of a wonder alloy, and one that is incredibly well suited for use in jewelry. Here are a just a few reasons why men’s cobalt chrome wedding bands have the potential to become a classic wedding ring option with serious staying power, current demand aside.

    They’re durable, crack and scratch-resistant. Unlike softer traditional metals like gold or inexpensive metal options like silver, cobalt rings are generally scratch, crack and tarnish-resistant. In fact, cobalt chrome is five times harder than gold and four times harder than platinum. It also resists tarnishing, not like the oxidization-prone metal sterling silver. This impressive strength lends amazing durability to chrome rings, making them ideal for everyday wear, as well as a great option for men who serve in occupations that require a lot of work with one’s hands. Men’s cobalt rings also have a pleasant middle of the alternative metal market weight, making them heavier than feather-light titanium but less weighty than tungsten, and in general feel more similar to a higher priced metal.

    They’re hypoallergenic and biocompatible. Cobalt chrome is naturally inert, and chrome rings are hypoallergenic. This has made them not only ideal for use in the medical field in surgical and other implants, but an apt choice for those with sensitive or allergic skin, as well as men who work in sterile environments (like doctors).

    They look like higher end metals. Unlike some other hypoallergenic materials that have a distinctly industrial appearance (titanium, for example), cobalt chrome more closely resembles precious metals like white gold and platinum. Displaying a signature high luster, these cobalt rings have an attractive traditional white metal look, and there is no plating involved to achieve this appearance (as is the case with white gold). This allows those with more traditional tastes to purchase a chrome wedding band at a fraction of the price of platinum or gold. As previously mentioned, these chrome rings also wear better than these precious metals, for an ideal combination of a high end look and modern industrial strength and durability.

    They’re re-sizeable. The strength and composition of other popular alternative men’s ring materials like tungsten, titanium and ceramic render them unable to be resized, meaning that their wearers are in danger of having to purchase a new ring if their ring fingers undergo any significant changes in size or shape. Cobalt chrome’s malleability allows cobalt wedding bands to be resized if necessity dictates such, which surely provides some degree of relief to those who don’t want to buy a new ring for financial or sentimental reasons. This malleability also means that there are more styles of men’s cobalt chrome wedding bands available on the market, as the material can accommodate both more detailed designs and popular wedding ring gemstones like diamonds.

    Author Bio:

    Samantha writes for Mens Wedding Rings, an online shop that offers a wide selection of unique men’s wedding bands, traditional rings and alternative styles like men’s cobalt chrome wedding bands.


     

    Heart & Love Themed Weddings

    Nothing is more romantic than when you speak from the heart, making the heart shape or LOVE design an extremely popular and ultimately appropriate theme for a wedding. You can select one or the other, or you can seamlessly combine a heart themed wedding with the famous LOVE design to make a double impact. Every wedding will be as romantic as Valentine’s Day when hearts and love are everywhere and in the air.


     

    Heart & Love Themed Weddings

    Nothing is more romantic than when you speak from the heart, making the heart shape or LOVE design an extremely popular and ultimately appropriate theme for a wedding. You can select one or the other, or you can seamlessly combine a heart themed wedding with the famous LOVE design to make a double impact. Every wedding will be as romantic as Valentine’s Day when hearts and love are everywhere and in the air.


     

    Wedding Trends to Avoid for 2012

    Wedding Trends for 2012 - What to AvoidThe weddings of the last few years have been full of creativity, choreographed dances, photo walls, and all things DIY.

    And while weddings are supposed to be a beautiful expression of the couple that is getting married, there are certain wedding trends that should have been left in 2011.

    So 2011: Photo props

    Yes, I know, they are fun and make for hilarious pictures. However, if I have to look at any more wedding photos where the bride is holding a moustache on a stick, I just might lose it. The time for props on sticks is winding down. Long gone are the days where each member of the wedding party has their own moustache.

    Instead for 2012 weddings, try and capture the candid moments. Photojournalism wedding photography is getting more and more popular with couples this year. These pictures tell the story of your special day, and highlight all the precious moments you will want to remember in the years to come.

    After all, in 10 years do you think you will still find that handlebar moustache on a stick entertaining? Probably not.

    So 2011: Choreographed wedding party dances

    I’m already wincing at how many people probably disagree with me here, but are we not over the whole choreographed wedding party dance by now? I mean, they burst out onto the scene a few years ago and we all enjoyed them and got a kick out of them. But now, they are tired and overdone.

    Besides, during big choreographed numbers, someone is always off beat, it just ends up looking sloppy, and you will probably just fast forward through it on your wedding video after the third time watching it.

    Instead for 2012, why not streamline the choreographed dance, if you really must have one, and choose to do it with just your groom, or even during your father/daughter dance? I personally like the father/daughter dance option as no one is really expecting it and you and your dad can have a blast making it up together.

    So 2011: Typical bachelorette parties

    Strippers, booze, and phallic themed party favors just doesn’t cut it anymore. Sure ‘suck for a buck’ t-shirts, penis shaped straws, or male stripper lap-dances make for funny pictures, but those bachelorette party novelties are only for the lazy maid of honour.

    Instead for 2012, creative MOHs are planning a day for their brides-to-be that they will never forget. Instead of drinking yourselves into a drunken stupor, channel your inner secret agent with events like Stiletto Spy School where ladies learn cool fighting moves, stunt driving techniques, and MacGyver-like survival skills. All while rocking a pretty dress.

    While it can be hard to not get caught up with the different trends of the season, weddings are a reflection of you and your hubby-to-be, and planning them should be fun. So with that being said, if you really want to bust out your own rendition of Michael Jackson’s ‘Thriller’ with your wedding party, do it. Just make sure you don’t overload your day with tired trends that everyone has already seen, or watched on the internet.

    AUTHOR BIO:

    Jill is the chief bridal bloggin’ babe for A Bride’s Wedding Guide where she blogs and vlogs about all things wedding, including bridesmaid presents ideas and unique destination wedding invitations.